Have you ever wondered what the best time is to kiss a Japanese girl? Or if you are a girl interested in a Japanese guy, do you know the likely places where you will get a kiss? In this article, we will look at the most common places where Japanese people usually kiss, so you can prepare for the right moment.
It may seem strange for an article to address this subject. However, many are interested in knowing how Japanese dating works. This is because in Japan, a kiss is seen as something for a ionate couple, while in the West it may seem like something simple and common even among strangers. This article will be helpful if you want to know the most appropriate moment for a Japanese girl to want to be kissed. Or if you are the girl, you need to know the most likely moments when the kiss will happen and thus help the shy Japanese guy to take initiative.
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The best situations to kiss
In Japan, relationships often begin in a somewhat peculiar way. A simple flirtation starts to turn into friendship, and you might be unsure if there is a romantic interest from the person. Sometimes even after a declaration (kokuhaku), kisses don’t happen and you’re left wondering how to make it happen. Below, we will see the best situations for these kisses to occur:
When being thrown into the wall - Kabe-don - The term kabedon (壁ドン) has become common in Japan. The word indicates the act of a boy pinning a girl against the wall while placing his hand over her. The image below is self-explanatory; the girl may love this gesture, but make sure she will accept you. This is the right moment to whisper romantic words, kiss her, and gaze into her eyes and smile.
on the Ferris wheel – If you're on a date at the amusement park, this is without a doubt the best and most likely place to have a kiss. Sometimes even declarations and marriage proposals are usually carried out inside the Ferris wheel, especially when it's at the top, that's the right time.
At the end of a date – When saying goodbye to a romantic date, the girl looks forward to the kiss and you need to have initiative. If you're the girl, don't be shy and let your face know that you want to be kissed, because if you're going to wait for a shy Japanese guy, you might end up without it.
If you are already married or in a long-term relationship, we may suggest that you kiss your girl every day when you leave and arrive. Another interesting time to kiss your girl is when she's cooking, grab her from behind.
Planning a Kissing Location
If you are already dating and don't know the right moment to kiss her, you can try to create the situations mentioned above. There are other obvious situations that girls create to show they want to be kissed. If you are the man, you can also create common situations for these kisses to happen in a romantic way.
You must take into that Japanese people are shy and need an isolated environment to kiss. Try to create an atmosphere as well, starting by holding hands, something girls most expect on a date. Considering these factors, let's look at the most common and anticipated places to kiss:
- On the school's rooftop;
- Inside an elevator;
- Inside a car;
- At the cinema;
- In the room;
You also need to pay attention to the girl! There are many signs they give you to know that this is the exact moment for the kiss:
- If she puts on lipstick in front of you;
- If she is close to you;
- If she compliments you frequently;
- If she bites her lip lightly;
- If she keeps looking you in the eye and mouth;
- If she drops hints;
If you are on a date, there is nothing to fear. Just don't be shy and take the initiative! Kissing in Japan is becoming less of a taboo; it's becoming common to see people kissing in public. I've even seen Japanese girls kissing strangers.
Despite their shy nature, you no longer need to be so afraid of kissing someone from Japan. What is your experience or opinion on kissing and relationships in Japan? If you want to comment and share with friends, I would be very grateful.
We also recommend reading:
- Love in Japanese - I love you in Japanese
- Kiss in Japan - How is it viewed? Kissing in public?
- How are Japanese relationships? - Relationship in Japan
